solitude

“Solitude gives birth to the original in us.” — Thomas Mann

“To live alone, one must be either a beast or a god, says Aristotle. Leaving out the third case: one must be both — a philosopher.” — Nietzsche

“Remember: the time you feel lonely is the time you most need to be by yourself. Life’s cruelest irony.” — Douglas Coupland, Shampoo Planet


Staying alone is better than staying with the wrong.


To shine in the light, you have to embrace the boredom in the dark.


There are many elements of living a good life, but the first and most foundational is to love yourself and enjoy spending time with yourself.

Go do things on your own / Take yourself on dates so you learn to trust your mind and view it as a welcome companion. If someone declared, “Tomorrow you must spend the day alone” the hope is that you would reply, “That sounds like a good day!”

The person who is at ease within finds every other space larger and more enjoyable. 1


Enjoy yourself, it’s later than you think. Enjoy yourself, while you’re still in the pink. The years go by, as quickly as a wink.


Lonely is a freedom that breathe easy and weightless and lonely is healing if you make it.

Footnotes

  1. Source: https://jamesclear.com/3-2-1/july-24-2025

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