solitude

“To live alone, one must be either a beast or a god, says Aristotle. Leaving out the third case: one must be both — a philosopher.” — Nietzsche


Staying alone is better than staying with the wrong.


To shine in the light, you have to embrace the boredom in the dark.


There are many elements of living a good life, but the first and most foundational is to love yourself and enjoy spending time with yourself.

Go do things on your own / Take yourself on dates so you learn to trust your mind and view it as a welcome companion. If someone declared, “Tomorrow you must spend the day alone” the hope is that you would reply, “That sounds like a good day!”

The person who is at ease within finds every other space larger and more enjoyable. 1


Enjoy yourself, it’s later than you think. Enjoy yourself, while you’re still in the pink. The years go by, as quickly as a wink.


Lonely is a freedom that breathe easy and weightless and lonely is healing if you make it.

Footnotes

  1. Source: https://jamesclear.com/3-2-1/july-24-2025

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